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18 points that clearly explain to you what to expect if you are expecting twins.

You go nuts during pregnancy. Yes, it will seem to you that you are in a sci-fi movie. Even a one-pregnancy pregnancy causes shock and awe in expectant parents, let alone when you wait and bear two new people at once. Horror!

Be prepared for the fact that after childbirth, children are likely to be left under the supervision of doctors. Even if twins are viable and healthy, they are more likely to be born prematurely, which means that kids will need specialist help. These days will seem infinite to you. But it will multiply by infinity when the children are finally at home.

You will be very tired. So much so that you might not even remember the first three or all five months of your children’s life. You will want to sleep all the time. Once you fall asleep on the floor. Or not once.

It will be difficult to feed them. It doesn't matter what you decide: breast, expressed milk or a mixture. Logistics will be difficult anyway.

If you have identical twins, they will constantly pay attention to you (especially when the children have already learned to sit in a stroller and smile at everyone around). Of course, you will not be given flowers on the street, but you will catch curious looks all the time.

And (regardless of what kind of twins you have) they will constantly ask you: “Are they twins?” People will literally run at you with this question, as if no one had ever thought of voicing it before, they will ask it without any connection with their level of intelligence and tact, the degree of prudence and kinship with you. Brace yourself.

And everyone has a story about twins. Such a plan: “Oh, my brother’s brother, twins were born in 1980”! Fantasy! Or: “I also had twins in the class, and last year one of them died.” Wow! In short, in fact, only twin parents have cool stories about twins.

Many people believe that the twins possess some kind of supernatural abilities, some special connection, the ability to feel each other at a distance. You would have to watch your own in order to have one or two cool stories in store about what mystical children you have.

In fact, of course, you have very cool and amazing children growing up, but like all siblings, they will argue for the right to be the first to go down the hill or play with a certain toy. They will be jealous and demand your undivided attention. From the side it will look like this: “Oh, how cute! They all want to do together, even to ride a slide! ”

Maybe this thought seems terrible to you now, but buying twins the same thing is not such a bad idea. Because at some point they will want "the same as his!", And then what? So take the same toys, the same cups, the same coloring. However, keep in mind that situations are waiting for you when both identical objects will be in the same hands. To calm a robbed child, give him a roll of toilet paper. And look what will happen.

If you think that with twins - it's like with one, only multiply by two, then no. Take at least a diaper change. You can’t just take turns changing diapers for children. Because while you are doing one, the second heart-rending yells / crawls to the bowl with food of your gray-haired dog / takes money from your bag and tears it / rushes along the ceiling. And there is no logic in these actions. It is impossible to guess and adjust - especially in the first year of parenthood.

Despite the fact that your children were born with a difference of a few minutes (and maybe they even look the same), do not expect them to develop at the same speed. Do not compare! And do not think that the one who does not say “kitty” is stupid, and the one that falls on the walk the least number of times is sporty.

More often remind yourself that no matter how cute they look together, they are different people. Each of them is a person, a person, the twins, although supplied in the kit, still want people to distinguish them. Remember everything that distinguishes them from each other, so that they themselves do not confuse. Well, yes, okay, one stupid, the second sports one.

If one of them catches a cold, try to catch the second as soon as possible. Well, let the sick person sneeze at him or something. Really. This is terrible when children get sick, especially when two get sick at the same time. But you know what is even worse? When one gets sick, the second cucumbers, and then the first gets better, the second gets sick. If you want to go to work sometime, then do as they say!

If the twins are the youngest children, and you already have a brood or at least one older one, you will have to buy a car. That is, if all this time you somehow put off or thought that you didn’t need it at all, then this moment when you need it has come.

Get discount cards in all possible stores. Find out about all the benefits that are due to you and do not miss the opportunity to get your money, even if it comes to a thousand rubles. And maternity capital is also due to you.

And yet: you have no more money. More precisely, you never have money again.

Parenthood is not a competition! You’ll cut it directly on your nose and please don’t be these bastards who roll their eyes to find out that someone has only one child. You have two of them not because you have decided so. And raising children - in any quantity - is difficult.

Pavlovskaya Ekaterina Ivanovna

Psychologist, Psychoanalyst. Specialist from the site b17.ru

What to do, what to do. Rejoice! Do not anger God. The first time will be hard and then you will rejoice yourself

The main thing is to be healthy. Twins is a risk, especially since your genetic is obvious

Well, if after the twins they were ready for the third, then for the fourth there will definitely be a place)))

and there could be triple

Do you have such a heredity? Well, of course rejoice)) It's hard yes .. but the children are growing rapidly, and everything will return to normal.

for some reason it seems to me that this is a wiring

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Well, if after the twins they were ready for the third, then for the fourth there will definitely be a place)))

yes cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone

how cool, I want it too)

Well, if after the twins they were ready for the third, then for the fourth there will definitely be a place)))

How did you decide on the third after twins? I had twins in 2006, I almost went crazy the first year. I will never give birth anymore, if zab. - I will do an abortion.

yes, the author is really cool for two times, you will have a huge family, you won’t be alone

yes cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone

Guest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.

Wow! Congratulations :)) Lucky for you. Do not worry, now you are experienced.

friends with girls for 5l.malchiki for 8 months!

Well, if after the twins they were ready for the third, then for the fourth there will definitely be a place)))

Guest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.

Personally, I would cry from the first twins.
I’m not even talking about the second one, I would immediately have an abortion.

What to do, what to do. Rejoice! Do not anger God. The first time will be hard and then you will rejoice yourself

Author, rejoice and give thanks to the Lord! This is such happiness.

If the conditions allow you to have children in such numbers - breed and multiply. Just not to stretch your legs from overload, hire a nanny, a cook, a housekeeper. If the husband supports, he will probably be able to provide you with human conditions for life.

Well, if after the twins they were ready for the third, then for the fourth there will definitely be a place)))

for some reason it seems to me that this is a wiring

You have such a fate. Karma.

Witch
for some reason it seems to me that this is a wiring
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Yes you are happy! My husband and I dream of two boys and two girls. Lucky))))

wiring. Right It seems that in a row twins can’t be born several times

but what kind of maternal capital you get - almost a million! And perhaps the municipality will provide you with additional housing! Congratulations!

The largest family in the history of Russia and the whole world is the Shuya peasant Fyodor Vasiliev (1707≈1782) and his first wife, whose name, unfortunately, has not been preserved. The wife of Fyodor Vasilyev is listed in the Guinness Book of Records as the most mother of many children in history. During her life, she gave birth to 69 children: 16 pairs of twins, 7 triplets and 4 quadruples. In total, she gave birth 27 times. Of the 69 children born, 67 survived infancy. After the death of his first wife, Fedor Vasiliev married again and his second wife gave birth to another 18 children: six twins and two triplets. As a result, Fyodor Vasilyev became the father of 87 children, although even this result does not allow him to be considered the most large father in history.

Guest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.

The largest family in the history of Russia and the whole world is the Shuya peasant Fyodor Vasilyev (1707? 1782) and his first wife, whose name, unfortunately, has not been preserved. The wife of Fyodor Vasilyev is listed in the Guinness Book of Records as the most mother of many children in history. During her life, she gave birth to 69 children: 16 pairs of twins, 7 triplets and 4 quadruples. In total, she gave birth 27 times. Of the 69 children born, 67 survived infancy. After the death of his first wife, Fedor Vasiliev married again and his second wife gave birth to another 18 children: six twins and two triplets. As a result, Fyodor Vasilyev became the father of 87 children, although even this result does not allow him to be considered the most large father in history.

And I do not understand your son and daughter, well, why else is a child. Although to each his own good luck to you.

Health to you and your children. I envy in a good way.

the author, everything will be fine, since you wanted the 3rd, then you can deal with 4, apparently such a fate. Someone doesn’t succeed, but you have twins right away)) Hold on, everything will settle down!

but what kind of maternal capital you get - almost a million! And perhaps the municipality will provide you with additional housing! Congratulations!

If the conditions allow you to have children in such numbers - breed and multiply. Just not to stretch your legs from overload, hire a nanny, a cook, a housekeeper. If the husband supports, he will probably be able to provide you with human conditions for life.

GuestGuest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.
My child was planned and desired at the same time.
And what you desired is when it flies in and then there was an acute desire to leave him, and not have an abortion?

Author, this is great! Your older couple will already have to go to kindergarten, and at home you will be occupied with younger children with a nanny (hire, be sure). Time will fly by quickly, and very soon you will feel such a return, so much love! You are a happy person! Health to all of you!

I can’t believe it. It is very difficult with twins, what kind of third child can we talk about? If I accidentally flew, and then consciously .. Brad.

Guest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.

guestGuestGuest cool author
for two times you are exhausted, you will have a huge family, you will not stay alone
How abnormally sounds like "unlearn". What for? And why did the author urgently need a third one for show? Why is everyone the same age? This is a five-year plan. Why can not give birth to pleasure? Maybe at 40 you want to squeeze the little one to your chest again?
Horror, the child should be very desirable, not planned.
My child was planned and desired at the same time.
And what you desired is when it flies in and then there was an acute desire to leave him, and not have an abortion?
You are a little dumb. I wrote that they don’t give birth to children according to plan, now I give birth to a face, and then we need another year or two, as it should, as long as age allows, I’m "exhausted" right away, etc. etc. They give birth to children at will and at the behest of the soul, and to give birth simply because it is time, and so it is necessary, and in order to immediately "unlearn" it was the animals.

wiring. Right It seems that in a row twins can’t be born several times

Personally, I would cry from the first twins.
I’m not even talking about the second one, I would immediately have an abortion.

ABORTION! Urgent and not miserable, two children are pi. zdets and quadruple only sows give birth! And here you write let them give birth, her husband has a salary of chtol 100 thousand to 4 give birth? Shy the salary of her husband is 30 thousand and she herself is sitting at home.

What to do, what to do. Rejoice! Do not anger God. The first time will be hard and then you will rejoice yourself

oh what happiness and I want twins

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